Your Life Depends on Your Habits

Quality of your life depends on your habits.
This is my personal opinion.

The whole world is thinking that life is about working hard and being patient.

A part of this idea is true but that’s not the only thing you need for your life. 
This is because you can’t keep on working hard and being patient the whole time.

It’s so easy to quit working hard and being patient that you quit right away if there’s a slight chance because you basically force yourself to work hard and be patient.
Your situation is likely to get even worse because you already have the experience of forcing yourself to do something you’re not into.

Your situation will be different if this is your habit.
You’re to perform and continue thing whether you like it or not, if you build a system of doing it as if you do it without noticing or you can’t live without doing it like washing your face, brushing your teeth and taking a shower.

If you make a habit of studying, you’ll be able to go to good school.
If you make a habit of working hard, you’ll get promoted to some level.

If you make a habit of spouse hunting activity, you’ll meet better significant other.
If you make a habit of discussing with your spouse, you’ll be having a happy marriage life.

If you make habits of being careful of what you eat and exercising, you’ll have a healthy life for good.
If you make a habit of looking for more fun and friends, your life will gradually be fulfilled.
If you make a habit of being economical, you will automatically save up
 money.
If you make a habit of making money, you will automatically have more money.

All listed above are obviously true and nothing special.

If you do the obvious, outcome is also obvious.
Make good habits for good outcomes.

Then, how do you make such habits?
To be continued tomorrow.

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