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“Don’t Do Anything You Don’t Want To” Isn’t a Bad Goal

I always feel it’s awkward “to be an entrepreneur to change the world” or “to do job that I love doing ”. I really don’t care about changing the world. It’s none of my business but I don’t understand having those gigantic dreams. Job that I love doing… I write blogs everyday so it’s true that I like it but I’d say no to make living by writing blogs because I’ll be out of topic, I’ll be lonely, it won’t make too much money and it’s not stable. What I Don’t Want to Do Is the Driver  I still want to do my own business, so I’ve been doing side business. Because I don’t want to be employed by someone else. I don’t want to commute during rush hour. I don’t ever want to follow someone’s instructions. I want to select who I work with. I want to select where I work. I don’t understand why my pay doesn’t go up even if my performance exceeds the expectations. I don’t understand either why I have to go to work even when a typhoon is hitting the area. Th

Lecturing Is Pointless …the Difference between “Communication ” and “One-Sided Expression ”

There’re two men at the coffee shop the other day.  It seemed one of them was a boss and the other was his subordinate. Since they’re right next to me, I overheard their conversation. Boss: “Did you go voting the other day?” Subordinate: “No, I didn’t.” Boss: “You should have. Young people should vote, otherwise, this country will go through blah blah blah…” He was lecturing.   Lecturing Is Counterproductive  I always think lecturing is useless, don’t you think? Because if someone lectures you, don’t you find that your motivation decreases rather than increases? If someone says, “You must go voting”, you never think, “You’re definitely right.  I’m going to the next election for sure”, do you? It’s more likely that you’ll end up feeling like,  “You shut up.  I won’t ever go voting”. “Communication” and “One-Sided Expression” “One-sided expression” is a way of communication that you let all out and feel good about it. It doesn’t mat